When It Comes To Attracting and Seducing Women Who Cares What Her Name Is

Have you ever been having a real good conversation with a woman and had it come to an end because she asked you what should have been a simple question but instead ended up being the three trickiest words know to a single man.

What's my name?

Now, it would seem that this is an easy question to answer if you know her name and a difficult one if you don't.

However, in reality it is a trick question and you need not answer it at all.

If you answer her question and you actually get it right you just let her know that you like her and she is in control.

If you answer and get it wrong or stumble looking for the answer you just let her know that you like her, have a bad short term memory, and she is in control.

Knowing what you know now it is easy to see why answering her question can only lead down a path you don't want to go down.

Instead of answering her question you can choose to ignore it or make fun of her for asking such a ridiculous question.

If you choose to ignore it and she asks you again what her name is you then have no choice except to make fun of her.

When a woman asks you what her name is she is giving you a signal that you need to step it up and take control.

The best way to do that in this situation is by making fun of her and not telling her what her name is or isn't.

By Teddy Shabba

The Perfect Time To Call A Woman In Order To Attract Her Is When You Have Something To Do

Imagine it is a Thursday night and you do not have any plans at all, when your perfect 10 woman calls you and wants to know if you want to hang out tonight.

Do you think you would hang out with her or just stay home and do nothing?

Most guys I know would gladly accept the invitation and might even cancel plans if they had any.

Now the example I just gave was not to discuss the pro's and con's of accepting last minute dates from women, but rather the benefits of calling a woman only when you have something to do.

So many times men get caught up with trying to figure out how long they should wait until they should call a woman.

The way to attract women is to call when you have something to do that you might think she would be interested in.

A man who calls the next day with plans to go to the river with some friends and wanting to know if she wants to hang out as well is going to come off much better than the guy who waits a week and has absolutely nothing to do or talk about.

It is important to remember however that when you call with something to do it is not really a date that depends on her, inviting her to go to the river with you and your friends; that's cool, but dinner and a movie isn't.

When you call a woman and invite her to accompany you in your life it lets her know that you are in control of your reality and maybe even really busy, her level of interest for you can do nothing but go up and even if she had other plans 9 out of 10 times you what know about them because she will cancel those after she gets off the phone with you.

In fact you might have even experienced it a time or two it is when you had a date plan with her and all of a sudden she has to cancel odds are some other guy who may or may not be better than you called her at the last minute and raised her level of interest for him higher than it was for you.

By Teddy Shabba

How To Start A Conversation That Gets Her Thinking 'Sex'

Breaking The Ice Is A Challenge - Making Her Hot For You Is An Even Bigger Challenge

Jump Starting Conversation

Sometimes not even a hammer with a lead ball at one end and a spike at the other is enough to "break the ice" in conversation with someone. The task can be even harder when you are trying to add some "juice" to the dialogue and get her in a looser mood.

Various settings will require various approaches but all the approach models out there contain something that is first and foremost in your tкte-а-tкte. This element will be something she will notice before you speak and the entire time you are in her presence.

This element that will precede ANY and ALL approaches to a female is: POISE.

Conversation Starters

Poise is more important than anything else because poise will help your chances of getting invited to the party so to speak. So before I throw you a few "ice breakers" pay very close attention because BODY LANGUAGE is an ice breaker and it is the first one she will see.

What ever the setting may be - work, school, frat parties, cocktail lounges, movie theater lines, coffee shops or even the Laundromat you must maintain "poise" at all times. It is in these abstract places you are most likely to meet someone you have chemistry with and have to act fast. But if you are giving off a cool vibe of confidence, positive energy and detachment you will attract many women.

Confidence: Assured (not cocky) behavior that suggests both experience and knowledge. Positive Energy: You project a good mood with jocular enthusiasm - courteous and smiling. Detachment: If there are 10 girls in the room you act as if you care about all equally and none.

These combined qualities are POISE. You walk with head high and shoulders back, with what I call "a Marine's confidence". You look her (and everyone) right in the eye when you speak as well as when you listen. You project - MAN…GENTLEMAN.

Be Invited Into Conversation

Getting noticed out there in the cattle that roam the hills that are the single life can be difficult. Having poise is the key to you getting noticed in all the abstract settings I mentioned earlier. That is literally half the battle; getting noticed. When YOU get noticed you help the onlookers or potential targets to sift them selves out of the game. Meaning: If you are attractive and show poise, you will undoubtedly get noticed by the girl who wants you to notice her. When she sends off this signal, then you are officially getting invited to the party.

Walk right up to her with smiles abound and say, "If you keep flirting with me I will make YOU buy dinner" or "I noticed you are always here when I am washing my boxers (Laundromat)". Say something FUNNY or something CLEVER that is a bit flirty. They sound corny but if you make a joke suggesting you two at dinner or in your boxers she HAS TO THINK ABOUT IT. If you make her think about it from the word "go" then she will always be thinking about it.

For kicks in the summer time (I am in better shape then) when I see a hot chick who is staring at me but won't approach, I will smile at her and then pull my shirt up as to "flash" her like girls do to guys…they think it is hilarious and always say something to ME. I do it in public or wherever and "you talk about an icebreaker…"

I know you saying, "How can I show poise when I am flashing some chick to start a conversation?" Poise gets there attention, laughter or joy keeps it. Everyone wants to have fun and when they have fun they smile more and open up.

Project Confidence

I once went to a coffee shop where a beautiful girl studying alone checked me out as I walked in. There were no other people in the cafй and when I got my hot chocolate and newspaper I came over to her table and said, "Do you mind if I share your table?"

She did not know what to say, and offered me a chair. I said, "Thank you" and then read the paper as if she were not there, it was about 10 minutes before she said, "So what do you do?" She started the conversation solely by how I projected myself, making my job that much easier. Poise, a combination of confidence, detachment and positive energy is the best way to get invited to the conversation, after that your focus should be on having a good time without being too aggressive. You can project sexy verbal stimuli to her solely by subtle words and suggestions.

I once walked up to a girl and said "Bon Jour Mademoiselle". She immediately replied in French and asked me a question. We both went silent and then asked in English if I spoke French, I said, "No, what you gave that idea?" I don't speak French but for that split second she thought I did. She felt I had poise and when she realized I did not speak French she knew I was funny and flirting with her. DOOR OPEN.

The best party to go to is the one you are invited to, you will always have the most fun. Poise and a good sense of humor are like dressing up for the party and they are your social skills when you arrive.

Make starting conversation with women easy. Make women want to talk to you.

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How To Make Girls Horny

Having Trouble Turning Your Dates Into Hot Sex?

So you can get dates but you can't get laid?

You have no problem making girls laugh but you're stuck in the friend zone, or the buddy zone or the "you ain't getting any of this pussy zone". You need to learn seduction and the bi-product of seduction is romance. You can't get to the romance if SHE is not horny.

Getting girls horny is more complex than just finding some horny girl. If there were a contingent of horny girls out there I would not be here listening to you read my words out loud at your computer screen. I would be out with my horny girl butterfly net swooping them up.

There are really only three things at the top of my list for making girls horny. These three list toppers are "investments" because SHE is and has the bank: The bank being the pussy of course.

The three that top my list are:

• Play hard to get
• Create suggestive situations
• Seduce with words

The last one will be tough for some because you will literally have to go out on a limb with some of the things that will be coming out of your mouth.

Making girls horny is about understanding at least a little about what they want or need. Women need to "THINK" and thinking about YOU can stimulate them if they are doing it enough. Horny girls merely need a pole to ride and unless your fat or missing limbs, anyone will do.

Playing Hard To Get

The first of three "get her horny tricks" is the trick all women use on men. MAKE THEM WORK. Remember if you are paying the check and opening the doors you should be deciding the "flow". Don't waste a bunch of money on a girl who does not give you the signs EVER that she is horny but just the opposite.

Playing hard to get is for the guys who are almost "there" with a girl and can't tell so you will incorporate "teasing". Teasing is the foundation of playing hard to get. Give HER the impressions you want to fuck her but don't let your ACTIONS show it.

For instance, take her on a date and flirt, flirt, flirt and then at the end of the date when you are certain she wants you to "come in for a while" you say NO. You might have to rub one out that night but you will drive her crazy and each time you take her out in the future she will be waiting for you to jump her bones. Tell her you only care about her but then don't return her call for a day or so.

Surprise her with a flower (waiting for her) on her desk or in her car with a note in "someone else's" handwriting and see if she asks you if you did it. If she doesn't then you're in trouble but if she does you just say no and then leave another telling her to meet you - you are the secret admirer - kinky and fun.

Create Suggestive Situations

The best way to create suggestive situations starts with being forced into positions that might put you two close together.

Example: Take your date to a movie that is boring so you too can goof off and hold hands. She will get impatient with the film and want you both to get out of there where you will take her to the parking lot and go down on her (how to set this up comes in part 3, below).

Take her to a bar if you know she likes dancing. Nothing says horny girl faster than getting funky and getting drunk. If she ever told you a story about her "dancing on a table", take her to the same place.

Take her to an amusement ride - yes a roller coaster. Studies show that when a woman is scared, shocked or excited by "thrills" it actually increases the libido.

Make her dinner at home. This is one of the best suggestive and sexy situations to get a girl horny on the entire list. It is so sensual watching a man cook for a woman and in this case he can even be fat… yes fat people cooking is sexy and makes girls horny (care to test it?).

Seduce With Words

Remember I told you that you would have to go out on a limb in this category to make girls horny. Seducing with words is not about saying, "I wanna fuck you". That is something you say with your eyes, not your mouth. But you can say just about everything else including, "I would love to go down on you".

Yes, I have used that line with girls and I will tell you why. Once I was on a date and she was a hot brunette with super dark eyes and caramel skin. The only problem was we were both bored as hell! We struggled in conversation as the meal ended and I knew the tricks I had been using had not worked.

I made a few jokes and then finally when I realized she did not want more wine I suggested, "I have an idea, since its getting late and you seem a little bored why don't we go over to the golf course and I will go down on you on one of the fairways."

She laughed the hardest she had all night long and said, "You don't want to go to your house, I am surprised." I replied, "I live 5 miles from here and you might change your mind but the golf course is across the street and you don't have to reciprocate, I just thought it would be nice to end the evening with you having an orgasm in my mouth on the beautiful grass."

She laughed again and chugged her wine and then just stared at me. She said, "You're naughty". I said, "You wait until you feel me go down on you, then you will know it for sure."

That is just one story and it could have failed miserably but "You can't have the fruit if you don't go out on a limb." The truth is that girl was very naughty but I was trying to be Mr. Niceguy all night and that turned her OFF. Another thing you could say to cause trouble is, "Why don't we go for a Jacuzzi, I don't have a jacuzzi but we can try and find one" (trust me if she goes on a jacuzzi hunt with you, you've got a horny girl on your hands). Just watch out for the home owners!

That's it gang, it is that simple, only 3 things and if you seize these opportunities when they come up it will be your stick that comes up… for air. No when to quit and move on and no when to stop making the "investment."

The only investment worth making is one that brings a return. Just ask the bank.

How To Get A Date With That Hottie

Once You Plan To Hit On Her, Follow These Steps To Reel Her In Fast

How many times a month do you frequent the same hair stylist, grocery store, drug store, coffee shop, tanning salon, gym, doctor's office, restaurant or other service and see that sweet hottie that is always so nice to you? You see her and she always treats you like a king with a big smile and you get the vibe that maybe -- just maybe -- you could make a move.

The only problem is that you don't want to misconstrued "niceness" for "horniness". How do you find out if she is single without blowing your whole wad at once? The best way is to ask questions.

The number one question you don't ask is, "ARE YOU SINGLE?"

The reason you do not ask this question is because it makes you look like a collegiate amateur. Why not just walk up and say, "I have a boner - do you want it?"

This question may break you for another reason. What if she is "not" single but really just wants to sleep with you? If you ask that question you alienate her because she would have to admit that fact to you and that might be an uncomfortable conversation. When a girl asks me if I am single I always say, "For the sake of this conversation I am."

Don't elimidate your prey with something so direct.

Feel With Words

So here is the approach: If you are a regular at any of the above mentioned venues such as a gym or salon the first thing you need to do is check the temperature of the water. Remember, this might take a few visits to pull off so don't be impatient. You have to do this right so that if you two never "connect" then at least she won't cringe when you show up in the future.

Just try to stay focused on always being "yourself" the same "self" that she likes smiling at - don't change your personality unless it is to merely "smile more". This is important because it may be your "simple" charms that get her attentions and keep them.

The way you go about it is - once you plan to "hit on" her, do it slowly in stages.

The first time you open the gate a little will be with questions about her JOB. The reason you ask about here job is because many of the professions mentioned can have high turnover. If she is quitting her job or leaving soon she might become an even better target and you can speed up your time table.

If she is quitting or leaving that location it does not matter if you strike out because she won't be there to rub it in - a new girl will. So now if she is not leaving the job it is an opportunity for you to learn a little about her - THE MORE INFORMATION YOU KNOW ABOUT A WOMAN THE MORE SHE THINKS YOU ARE LISTENING - THIS IS A GOOD THING.

On the next visit - try to see her AFTER the weekend so that you can ask her, "how was your weekend?"

This will be the first opportunity for her to tell you whether she has a boyfriend or not. If she is close with her boyfriend, then more than likely they spent the weekend together and she will tell you about it. It also may turn into a bitchfest of complaints regarding "what her boyfriend doesn't do". Make sure you don't become a "sounding board" for her problems or she will see you as the sympathetic ear and not the hard cock.

If you don't get anything from that conversation regarding her "single status" then on the next visit (OR IF YOU RUN INTO HER IN PUBLIC) ask her, "What's new?" If she doesn't say anything interesting - compliment her in a roundabout way by saying, "Someone as beautiful (or fun or cool etc.) as you should have dates lined up." If her response sounds like she needs a date then maybe; just maybe now is the time to ask her.

If her response is murky and includes suggestions she is not in a "satisfying" relationship then you might have to go one more round with flirting and priming. That next round might include a question like, "Have things gotten better"? For which you will respond, "Because I would love an attempt at making you smile." Suggestions are always better than uncomfortable direct questions.

At this point you should have a very good idea what she does, who she is seeing, for how long and if she is happy. If you can't feel a vibe "one way or the other" at this point then she is either playing with your head, she's an emotional wreck, or you're an idiot. If you do it right and she doesn't bite than I would bet on number two of those three.

You never have to ask "Are you single?" because many women (especially those attracted to you) will let you know in their actions and the stories they tell. If you go to one of these places mentioned and a girl YOU are attracted to asks YOU if you're single then forget everything I said, look at her, say YES.

The Swoop: How To Pick Up A Woman Surrounded By Guys

The Beauty Of This Move Is It Requires Only One Prerequisite - TIMING

The Swoop

As men we wear the moniker "hunter-gatherer". This means that the male species is EXPECTED to do the hunting, stalking and killing of their prey.

Laymen: You need to hit on chicks because you can not count on them to hit on you. Women are not oblivious to the Hunter-Gatherer theory and the millions they spend on cosmetics, hair and clothes is proof of that. The sweet fawns position themselves as dolls to be caught and played with.

This theory is important because today you will learn a technique that saves you time and money in the H-G continuum. This technique is referred to as the "swoop".

Think of yourself as the bald eagle that watches from above and waits to swoop down on un-expecting prey. This method is used by so many men who know "the game" and seize opportunities, not men who pace the floor at home saying, "I woulda, shoulda, coulda". The beauty of this move is it requires only one prerequisite - TIMING. Here at Seduction Insider you will find the intense skills of what to say, when to say it and most importantly - when to say nothing and watch. The latter is where we will start.

The Plan

"If you fail to plan, you plan to fail". That is a business credo that flows into your personal life as well. Here, your plan starts with "environment". You can not pull the swoop if you don't have prey.

The environment is a public place, party, bar, gym, and especially "the lake", where my editor is undoubtedly swooping on numerous victims daily. The environment must be "target rich" like the gym. I have a nationwide membership to 24 Hour Fitness and though I normally am against hitting on girls at the gym…it is okay only if you pull the swoop. The reason I think your LOCAL gym is not a good place to frequently hit on girls is because you don't shit where you eat; other gyms or locals I mentioned away from home are prime spots - including any bar.

Bring your confidence and maybe even inflate it a little because you will only get one chance to pull the swoop. That is the only drawback - in many cases the swoop is a "make or break" move and if you pull it again in the same environment too soon or too many times then you will "spoil the milk" and have to leave.

Since you really only have one shot per venue to pull the swoop there is no need to be in a rush. Now you know where to pull the swoop -- and it is time to tell you what it is you are looking for: You are looking for a girl who is getting hit on by a couple of guys, a group of guys or maybe some transient traffic surrounding her at the bar. THESE GUYS WILL BE YOUR AUDIENCE.

MRS (Most Recent Swoop)

My most recent swoop is a great example of how it is done. Earlier I mentioned my gym membership - my most recent swoop happened at 24 Hour fitness in the Bay Area. I was visiting family in The City (San Francisco) and when I was at the gym one afternoon I noticed the SWOOP setting itself up right in front of me.

A lovely brunette with wispy highlights and full red lips was working her abdominals (abs) in the abs section. Her body was so tight that no straight man on the planet could resist thinking what she might be like in bed. I actually lost concentration watching her - but it is was when I noticed the traffic of guys coming over to talk to her that I saw my chance.

When the third guy came over to talk to her I noticed he was a stud looking guy and had "game" with her and clearly had spoken to her in the past. What I noticed was NOBODY INCLUDING THE STUD was closing the deal. He actually came over more than once and even "I" was waiting for this guy to hit on her. His buddy came over to join in the "chit-chat" (this scene could have been at a bar) and that is when I did it.

I went to the front desk and wrote my name and number on a piece of paper and immediately approach the group and walk right up to the gal and say, "Hi my name is Jackson - staring at you working out is keeping me from my working out - I am only in town for a few days (hands her the note) maybe when you get done hypnotizing everyone at the gym you will let me buy you a cup of coffee".

EVERYONE WENT QUIET. For about a half second nothing was said and then she formed a smile behind blushing cheeks. She thanked me and they went back to talking - as I walked away I said, "I like your hair". She called two days later and we sat at The Grove on Chestnut Street in the Marina District and within an hour we "locked lips".

The swoop comes in different forms and has different time frames. For instance you can ask them for their number or they could call sooner. The best way though is literally cutting through your "audience" and showing her that you are showing them how it is done.

Someone does not even have to be hitting on her for it to work - for instance the grocery store line, a pool area in Vegas, boat to boat at the lake or any public venue that is target rich with onlookers. When you have the strength and poise to approach a female in front of others and make your move then you are showing her and telling them: confidence.

In fact this is probably the biggest display of confidence you can possibly show a women in a minute or less.

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