Men often view approaching unknown women and initiating conversation a difficult step, that one doesn’t enter into lightly. Actually that’s mostly true if you’re inexperienced with women’s manners in courting situations.
Essential steps to introducing yet unknown women
However It's also useful to note that the if a man that just sits back and waits for a woman to hit on him, he actually never get to choose who he wants to date.
To be picked and approached seems like some kind of compliment to women. So they would rather wait for a man to make first step and approach her then she would risk approaching men and get turned down. What are essential steps to introducing yet unknown women?
Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:
- Know to maneuver yourself into women’s space to show her signs of interest
- Understand why shy or introvert women would rather wait for a man to initiate contact
- Make women flattered by the interest and attention you give them
So, let's evaluate all-important steps one by one!
How to maneuver yourself into women’s space to show her signs of interest
Although men believe they have the opportunity to make the first move towards introducing women, actually women do pick and approach.
Women are welcome in a social situation to see a man they find attractive and then maneuver herself into his space to make herself available for his attention.
Shy or introvert women would rather wait a man to initiate contact
However there are always shy or introvert women who’d rather wait a man to initiate contact. So if you're in, a crowded bar or at a party, find a reason to walk near or stand in relatively close proximity to the woman.
You’ve given her the opportunity that eye contact can be established; you’re giving her the opportunity to make a move and show if she’s interested. Sometimes it ends up merely being eye contact across the room. Even the split second connection and small smile, could lighten love spark.
Make women flattered by the interest and attention you give them
Women are flattered by the interest and attention a man gives them, even when they're not interested in a relationship. Being the object of the opposite sex attentions boost females self esteem and praise her female attributes.
These are signals that say, it's okay to approach me. You can want women to be more aggressive all you want, but unfortunately all kinds of long-established social conditioning is in effect.
Women would let a man make first move toward intimacy
Bottom line: Most women are more comfortable letting a man make the first move. As a man you need to recognize hidden and subliminal messages from women and initiate contact if appropriate.
In a woman’s eyes, that doesn't mean she isn't picking and choosing, In her own way she might be sending easily readable signals so the man can make the connection.